The biggest shock of this year

I want to remember this moment.

They say you learn about a person's character during moments of stress.

My brother Aswad turns out to be an abusive and emotionally unstable character.

When in argument, he doesn't know how to handle himself.

Talk to him in private and you can be sure he'll bring it out online in no time.

You cannot be safe with this guy.

It all started two weeks ago when we had a chat over teh tarik. He shared with me his recent 'adventure'.

He wanted to put it on his blog. I said not to. He would be embarrassing himself.

I said certain things should remain private. It's just common sense. He agreed.

I thought that was it but the very next day, he did exactly the thing we both had agreed he shouldn't do. He blogged.

As a friend, I was furious! This fu***r is 36 years old and he cannot even protect himself from himself!

I decided I had had enough of this guy's antics. I knew it was going to be unpleasant but I had to tell him off.

I acted swiftly. Gave him a phone number belonging to a shrink. Told him in no uncertain term to deal with his problem "like a man".

And what did he do? He responded by writing a nasty, hit-below-the-belt note about me on FB. Dragged my kids and parents into it. Saying things about me on FB which I can’t defend myself to because he blocked me.

The fact that I had been a loyal friend didn't matter at all to him. That I listened to him when he was sad with his munchkin problems, defended him when people said bad things about him.

Bila dia sakit, aku hantar pegi hospital, bawak pegi beli tongkat.

Introduced him to my friends as my buddy.

All these things didn't matter at all.

So I tried to help. All I did was told him to deal with his problem. But he bit my hand. Big time.

Now he's completely out of control, out of his mind, and hell bent on shaming me online.

This has been the biggest shock of this year. Dia nie rupanya orang gila, cuma aku je yang tak tau.

So this is it for our friendship. Cukuplah. I do not befriend crazy people. If he needs help, he knows where to go.